Nigerian lady advises other ladies on dating men before getting married after she learnt the hard way ~ Vokogists

Nigerian lady advises other ladies on dating men before getting married after she learnt the hard way

A Nigerian lady and facebook user, Okibe Olivia who seem to have learnt a life’s lesson through the hard way after her marriage to her Malayasia-based ex-husband crashed, has taken to the platform to advise ladies on dating men before choosing them as their life partners.

Olivia who shared photos from her introduction ceremony with a man she never dated, wrote;

“Who doesn’t know us ?
I flaunted him up and down , I loved him with my heart and was ready to be the best wife ever to my man , only to find out ten thousand reasons why I should decamp . No matter the money thrown on me.

See, yes I fell for him and started loving him though with some doubts in me , but the power of money is something else ,chai God punish poverty I swear.

I want to apologize to thousands of my close friends that wrote me privately, publicly and through calls so that I can pull my post down and die the story . But I said noooooooooo

And when I say noooo, I mean real noooooo
My mind is made up , to share the story from the beginning to the end with nothing but sincerity of heart.

I rather die sharing the whole story than die as a coward with the story untold .

Before I took this bold step , I ve analyzed it very well and I know I can do or handle whatever that comes out of it because am equal to task and I got a lot of backups .

Now listen ,
Am not sharing my story to Pain anybody ; neither am I revenging him , nooooooo. Never; revenge is of God and not mine.
Even if I had decided to revenge physically, my retaliation won’t be half of the damage he caused me in life except I killed him and payed with his life but because I didn’t create him , I have no right to take his life .
So I left revenge for God that delivered me from the Lion’s Den.

I suffered depression for 3months plus half a month (from February to May 2017) but am free now , completely free .
If not , I wouldn’t be proud saying my story .

My reason of writing out my ugly experience with the Malaysian based guy hustler is because of other girls, a lot of girls are falling victim on daily basis .

Hear/ read my story , learn your lessons and be wise .

After you are done with my story and you didn’t receive sense then I bet you , Holyghost fire needs to fall on you .

Meanwhile, am not pained oooooh; neither do I want him back , Never

So , please don’t get it twisted . Don’t forget I was the one that walked away ……

I want to save some girls from some shits .

To be continued…”

Then she further wrote;

“And this was my Introduction on the 7th of January 2017. Yes you read right, it was only my Introduction (knocking on my head and fixing date) and nothing more .

It was a blast, fun but guess what? I was still a bitter woman down my heart , with all those smiles you saw me wearing on the face , I was still very weary and bitter because I knew I entered the wrong hand but I found out abit late. But to God be the glory , it ended in praise.

Experience is the best teacher .

My advice to girls is to please date him atleast for 2days or three days , a week preferably before you say yes to his marriage proposal .

I never dated him oooooo and I said yes !! Pity me but eventually , I learnt my bitter lesson. Case closed”